There are times when you say to
yourself: “My life is frustrating!”, “I’m going to die as a mediocre”, “I’m not
doing what I wanted to be! or at least what I’m meant to be...” ,“Even people younger
than me are have a high paying jobs, gorgeous flat in MG Road and a resplendent
wife, what am I doing !”
Now it doesn’t end there, you’re going
on to say, “Dhanush is acting with Sonam Kapoor!!!”
And when you are almost there thinking
in a right way that you are not doing what you wanted to, the demon inside you
wakes up and says, “Brother, they were born with it, not just that, they had
rich celebrity parents and God was also very partial to them” Before you put a
period to this statement, the demon goes on rambling, “Oh yeah, it was also pure
luck. Have you not seen this Dhoni guy, he was some TTE in railways and now he
is Captain Cool itseems!”
And that is when you say, “Oh I can’t.
I’m done. I’ll follow what others are doing. They are prodigious, blessed but
I’m not. So, I have to live with this!”
Yes, the time when you had this idea
in your mind, you definitely lost the battle of what it takes to be great!
Dhoni was not just TTE who by chance
got into cricket; untold version is that, he made his debut for Jharkhand when
he was 18 and now he is 31. It took almost a decade for him to become the World
cup winning Captain. Once in an emotional interview Yuvraj Singh mentioned, “Skipper was struggling for runs but he did not lose heart and kept on working very hard in the
practice sessions.” Do you still think that is by mere luck?
If you
think Jet Li is a child prodigy then think again. It took him seven long years
to become the “Gifted” kid who won several Gold medals in All China Games at the
age of 12. There is nothing called a child prodigy but instead they are the
ones who start early. Most of the time,
they were born to parents to “highly involved parents” as Geoffrey Colvin,
Senior Editor at Large to Fortune says. These highly involved parents have made
their kids work from the time they start understanding things and start show
interests in various art/science/sports. Do you still believe that they are
child prodigies? If you still think then autobiography of Tiger Woods will
prove you wrong, he started playing Golf when he was 18 months and it took him 15
years from then to become the US Amateur Champion. When his friends were
enjoying the worldly fun Tiger Woods put in hours of hardwork and meticulous practice
and that is how he became Tiger Woods!
Now,
the question on your mind will be “Then what did they have in common?”
Indisputably, it was HARDWORK.
Abraham Lincoln, the Champion American
president had to fail 18 times in various life time events before becoming the
President of United States of America. Master Blaster, Sachin Tendulkar had to
wait for 74 matches to score his first century. Oprah Winfrey was fired from
her job because she was “Unfit for TV”. Steven Spielberg got rejected from film
school, not once but thrice. Michael Jordon was not selected for his High
School Basketball team! It was never an easy one for them; if you just
fantasize their riches and fame then it’s time to get prepared to face the
battle for life.
Now, you might raise a question, “What
should I do?” Researchers say that the great people are the ones who have put
their heart and soul into something for 10,000 hours. When you break it down to
nine hours a day including the weekend after all the work/School/College you
do, it roughly comes to nine
years; and if it is two hours a day then 13 years. Yes, you are just 13 years
away from the zenith that you wanted to reach all life! Tiger Woods used to
swing his ball twice not hit a bucket of balls and that shows the dedication
and effort that was put in by him and that’s what took to get better. And that
will get you to want you want to become.
Talking this path is tougher as you
might lose your heart in the middle. Loosing heart doesn’t mean, you say “I
can’t” but instead the loosing heart will trick you with words, “You are better
than this!”, “Not your cup of tea” and it just goes on, not just your heart but
the whole world will tell you. Every Tom, Dick and Harry will criticize you,
Laugh at you. But remember one thing, as Mahatma said, “First they ignore you,
then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win!”
The journey that you are going to take
will not just result in success but also leave you with sweet memories that you
can cherish forever. After all, life is lived once, and it definitely deserves the
happiness of achieving.
I always strongly believe that, we are
the ones who know ourselves better than anyone else and we know what we are
going through better than anyone and therefore we should ask ourselves, “What
to do we want to yearn when we are about to say a big bye to this beautiful world?
“And once we decide it, then “Nothing else matters”.
I say it again, “Nothing else
matters!”
“Life is
ours, we live it our way “,
Alagiri
Inspired by the article “What it takes
to be great” by Geoffrey Colvin
(Senior Editor at Large, Fortune Magazine)